I think I will make better, wiser decisions if I can accept things as it is, see people as they are, and work up from that plain.
People, matters, and things do not need my judgment. But I need to judge. I need to create that story, so my brain can work comfortably with the things and matters I am in contact with, I can make sense of things. I need to have the feeling deriving from grouping things.
The realization that I need to judge rather than the subject matter needs my judgment is a powerful one. The power of as it is, #nofilter.